Eight Reasons Enfield Republicans Should Drop the Pride Flag Referendum

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  In 2022, the Town Council, under a Democratic majority, approved a policy allowing Pride flags to be displayed at Town Hall during Pride Month in June. After retaking the majority in 2024, Republicans passed an ordinance banning all non-government flags from government buildings. That should have been the end of it. But it wasn't. After forming a Charter Revision Commission, its chair, Mayor Ken Nelson, sought to include what amounts to a permanent Pride Flag ban in the town charter. Changing the town charter requires voter approval through a referendum. If voters approve the measure, future councils must follow the rule unless a new referendum overturns it. Mayor Nelson has been the strongest advocate for putting this on the ballot. "Can the town buildings be used to push a personal ideology on the residents of Enfield?" he asked at the Commission's final meeting. "It is a political issue—it's not our billboard." Last week, the Charter Commission dead...

The rough and unfair criticism of the Enfield March for our Lives protest


After the March for our Lives posted this on the Enfield Open Forum on Facebook. There was a lot of negative comments about student activism in Enfield. But Facebook forums are Facebook forums. They don't reflect the broader community.

Here's what I wrote:

Why are so many people on this Enfield forum so interested in tearing down the town's kids? Belittling their advocacy? There were a fair number of adults and families at today's Enfield event. It was very touching. There were several student speakers, whose names I don't know, who delivered articulate, passionate assessments of the problem. I was very impressed by them.

Enfield has always had a little bit of an off-center streak to it. When I was growing up here, I knew a fellow who was involved with the John Birch Society. They had an office in Thompsonville. Early 1970s. There's always been a conservative streak to the town, and a strong liberal one, rooted in the New England, Catholic tradition.

Something strange is going on in our society today and that includes Enfield. The people have been most impacted - the children - are demanding changes. But there's a lot of push back in Enfield. And overall, I think people in these forums have been pretty rough. A little too rough. And I think we need to step back a bit. People have hurled everything they can think of at them.

We're not in a good place, and hopefully we can agree on that point here. I know I can't change the minds of people who believe anyone should be able to own a AR15-type weapons. I give up on that. And the false flag arguments - i.e. it's bullying - are just that, but arguing on Facebook is pointless.

But what I will suggest is that we all agree is to remind the kids of this town that we are proud of them. We are proud of them when they take a stand. We are proud of them when they show civic responsibility. We are just, plain and simple proud of them. You may not agree with their stand, but don't use that disagreement to tear the kids down and belittle them. Some of you have been doing that, and it's not right.

This generation is inheriting a world that we left them. They have to clean up our messes. You can fight them when they run for office. But for now, we should applaud the spirit of this community. The entire community. Enfield was one of just several towns in Connecticut to hold a march. That's something. It says something about the town. Let's honor that spirit. Let's honor what's good, and that good is all around us.

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